Wednesday, August 18, 2010

I don't know what to do ? i feel so helpless ... i can focus on anything .. how do i approach her mother?

i and one girl are totally in love with each other ... shes a girl of brahmin caste and a south indian... i m a north indian and of vaisya caste ... recently the girl told her mom everything ... her mom called me and told not to speak to the girl anymore and threatened me even ... but we have been secretly speaking ... through the help of our mutual friends ... yesterday the girl called me and said that its over ... she cannot go against her mother ... she told that she is breaking it off ... because she cannot go against her mothers wish ... i somehow asked what happened through a mutual friend ... and its like her mother is saying that ... she has no objections ... but she would never accept our marriage and she would never see me or enter my house ... she can visit her mother , but she would never come ... my girl is very very simple ... she gave into her moms wishes and called me up and said that it cannot work out ... she cannot go against her mother ... her mother mentioned that she does not like me ... she has never actually met me ... but ... she probably does not like me because ... i courted her daughter ... treating her out to lunch , and i have her photographs ... her mom was like ';this shows your character ... learn to respect a woman first '; ... probably this is where it went wrong ... the fact that i took her to lunch and have her photo got a bad impression of me ... i guess her mother totally does not approve of this ... i had no idea that having some photos and taking the person you love so much out for a good lunch is such a bad thing ... one more reason she stated was the cultural and caste differences ... i know that it will never be an issue .. my girl also knows that ... because we both are willing to adjust... i m madly in love with this girl ... she too loves me very very much ... but she does not want to go against her mom ... her mother does not even want to speak with me ... i have tried many times ... i dont know what to do now ..., i really do want to marry this girl ... i want to make her my wife .. but i m not able to even directly contact her ... what do i do ... what do i say to convince her mother ... there has to be a way of convincing her mom right ? ... how do i approach her mother ?.... please help me out ... how do i convince her mother that i m not a bad guy ... i genuinely care about her daughter and we both are truly in love and its not infatuation ...I don't know what to do ? i feel so helpless ... i can focus on anything .. how do i approach her mother?
romeo n julietI don't know what to do ? i feel so helpless ... i can focus on anything .. how do i approach her mother?
wait for the weekend and see which places her mother and her daughter visit often recommended to be in a restaurant area or a public place. and walk there like it was an accident and just when you pass next to her like it was a surprise, just smile and say ';hi, how you doing?'; to the mother in a kind way, and don't say much after that and don't bother them much, and don't stare at them, just leave them alone, set for a while in that public place for like 10-15 minutes and leave the place first before they leave, so they don't think you are stalking them. and then leave peacefully. maybe she will see something good in your face. but just a simple hi and smile with good mature behavior. and then do not bother them unless she is the one who called you to her table or place.
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