Friday, August 20, 2010

How soon to is Too soon to be married after being divorced ?

How soon to is Too soon to be married after being divorced ? Or does it depend on the situation ?How soon to is Too soon to be married after being divorced ?
To each their own, im sure its different for other people, and yeah it depends on the situation.How soon to is Too soon to be married after being divorced ?
My mother has been married 3x.


She married my dad, and he left her high and dry when I was born.


Then 5 yrs later she married my 1st stepdad 20 yrs later he died.


Then 5 yrs later remarried my current dad, ( he is more of a father to me than the first 2 combined.)They have been married for 10 yrs and they had a baby girl.


Basically, whenever you feel ready.
I'd say if you filed for divorce today and flew to vegas tomorrow, it might be a tad early...





I don't think there is a clear-cut and dry answer, but if you're the type that seems a relationship to run from any type of self-esteem issues, then you need to deal with those first. I also think that as long as you're confident, and dealt with any psychological issues positively, then you're good to go...





Just my opinion...
It's all up to the individual And if children are involved. A divorce then a marriage immediately maybe too much for children to handle. It takes time to adjust to the ending of a marriage. And then BAM we have a new Pappa. Take your time!
No such thing as too soon. Live, love and if it doesn't work, try and try again. You only live once. Let no ones judgment of you make your life decisions.





who is anyone to judge you?
Ever.
If you don't feel ready to be married, it's too soon.
I'd say to give it a few years before you get remarried
dont guess there is a time set now days and time . good luck

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