Why are married Christians hesitant to admit but not secular people?

Secular people have admitted that even though they are married they find other people attractive that they aren't married to but they still stay commited to their spouse.





Married Christians would not even admit that they have once felt attracted to someone else! Our sex drive can't tell between married and single.





How come Christians won't admit it but secular people are open and honest about it?Why are married Christians hesitant to admit but not secular people?
Peer pressure. They put up an image, and at times don`t even admit to themselves that something is wrong in their marriage.


All men look and have desires.


Marriage and monogamous relationships is unnatural for humans, especially males.


It is entered into via rituals for the safety and assurance of women and young children. To further our species.


The natural response for males because of testosterone is to impregnate as many women as possible in their youth.


Marriage and its rules are a large stumbling stone for young men due to their natural directive. This leads to problems.


In the past women were more passive and looked the other way for the sake of the family. They had few options.


Today`s women are less forgiving.Why are married Christians hesitant to admit but not secular people?
Where do you get your information?


Married people, and I've been one for 45 years, still enjoy beauty when they see it. It has nothing to do with commitment to comment on that beauty.


Finding people attractive and lusting after them are two different things.


How do you know so much about married Christians? Both my husband and I dated before we were married, and we both know that.


Sorry, but some people have sex drives with a conscience. We are as open and as honest as the ';secular'; group you speak about, but we also have control over ourselves, our lives and our emotions.


When you are a married, Christian person, come back again with your opinions about how things really are.
How come you generalize? Remember President Carter? He admitted it. Lots of Christians admit this. They do not act on the attraction the way some seculare people do.








Generalizing is ignorant.








Why are you stereotyping?





Waiting for all your percentages and proof.......
To try to impress something that doesn't care.
This is merely your opinion about the subject. It in no way implies that it is the truth
they have major issues