Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Do military men tend to rush relationships?

It seems like a lot of them are in a rush to get married and have families. Also, how can you tell if they're just playing you?Do military men tend to rush relationships?
Not all military men are in a rush but the ones who will play you... well just give them what they want and you will probably never see them again.Do military men tend to rush relationships?
Nine out of ten military relationship questions I read on here are from females who have ';fallen'; for a GI, or want to have his baby or something like that. I think too many people on both sides of this issue rush into relationships. That's why we have so many divorced people out there and so many single parent kids in America. Being a soldier isn't enough for some of you, you want to make him a baby daddy too.
LOLOLOL I've been with my marine for 9 loooong years and got married 6 years in. I wouldn't say all of them are but yes A LOT are. If they can find a woman who will actually wait for them they are all over it. Its hard to find a woman who will do that and then when they do they like to rush the relationship to make it feel as rock solid as possible because they are so afraid of losing the women. And the others don't care to have an actual gf they just want to get some *** while their home. You'll be able to tell the difference between the 2....The ones that are just playing with you will be the ones that only call or text when they want some ***...or the ones that want to take you to a bar or somewhere that doesn't include dinner and a movie lol. I've been on a lot of double dates and I've been there to hear the **** these men say lol. You'll know. If you have any specific questions email me and I';ll give you some tips.
Military men only have so much time in some situations to cultivate relationships. Most Naval officers I know are in a port for 2 years or less and then move again. I've actually met a few recruiters who took time off from their designators to recruit and ';find a wife.';





You'll never know if they're just playing you.. but I would be concerned about the period of time you know someone. Marriage and children are a serious commitment- you have to consider that if your marriage doesn't work out will you be able to support yourself and/or children? My advice? Take a few years to get to know each other before committing to marriage. If he doesn't want to wait- you should probably bow out of the relationship and consider yourself lucky
Depends on the man. Some, yes - because then they are entitled to more money for a spouse and more money for dependent children. Other, yes - it's nice to get away from the pool of uniformed people and have your someone special to come home to. Others, no - if they wanted wives and children, the military would issue it to them.
LOL YES THEY TEND TO RUSH ALOT OF THING MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS AND MUCH MORE. THEY LOOK AT MONEY TO BE A WAY OUT OF ALOT OF THINGS AND WHEN THEY ARE READY TO FACE A DEPLOYMENT THEY SEE THINGS THAT ARE NT CLEAR I ALWAYS TELL THE SOLDIERS DONT RUSH NOTHING TO TAKE THERE TIME FOR THERE'S AND THE CIVILAN. MAKE SURE THIS IS SOMETHING YOU WANT AND IF YOUA RE DEPLOYING OR GOING TO SCHOOL WAIT
You mean you didn't like the answers to the several questions you asked like this yesterday and the days before that?
I'm gonna be a Infantryman in the U.S. Army this summer and I'm planning on breaking up with my girlfriend and cutting all ties with everyone before then. So, no, I'm not really sure what you're talking about.
Way to go for HOOAH for calling this Kelly out...this Kelly user sure does like ask this question over and over...and over lol
Often military men will 'speed' up a relationship because they realize that there are inherent dangers in serving in the armed forces. If you are being sent into harms way, you are often willing to rush into a marriage or attempt to assure that you have a living legacy (children).


How can you tell if they are playing you? Have them meet your Dad and watch how they act around him. If you think that you wish he gave you the same level of respect when your Dad wasn't there...then dump him because he doesn't deserve you. Good Luck and remember that if you don't know what tomorrow will bring you can gain a greater appreciation for today.