well if ur gay why would you mary a girl??? and that means ur bi...How can i be gay but still have sex with girls?
If you are gay, you will not be turned on by women. You should not (in theory) be able to have sex, but that does not mean there is no way you can love your wife.
Cheers,
Captain Jack.
throughout history lots of gay men have.
if your gay why would you want to marry a woman. um you can have sex the normal way. i believe once your wife starts touching you an erection will take place. i have a gay friend who was married and has 2 kids naturally with his wife.
WHY would you want to marry a girl if ur gay????? Stop trying to force yourself to be something your not!!!!
easy answer, don't
don't marry a woman, don't have sex with women.
if your gay I don't see the point unless you enjoy living a constant lie and causing yourself constant depression and psychological damage.
I see guys like you all the time, and you know what, some 10 to 30 years after they're married they come out and have some kind of mental breakdown, but by that time their wife is very attached and they probably have kids. You help nobody by marrying a girl, you will just cause a lot of pain to yourself and others
Maybe.
I used to have sex with girls. But i wasn't thinking about the girl, only how it felt physically.
Why would you want to do that to someone? Marry them but not be attracted, not really in love with them. That sounds pretty cruel to me.
Not all people are the same, be they str8, gay or somewhere in between. Back when gays had to hide their sexual orientation due to social prejudice, many did marry and even had children.
It was within their capacity to go through the mechanics of having sex with women. I should add that many still do this, some out of denial, I have spoken with some who had wives and children but eventually came out.
In like fashion some guys who would never have gay sex under normal circumstances found that
when that was all that was available, they indulged in it.
I'm sure that there are some people who would never have gay sex(if they are str8) or never have st8 sex if they are gay.
I believe that very few people are absolutely gay or str8, most fall somewhere in they middle of these
2 categories, with desires toward one way or the other.
I don't know where you are at, but, you should be honest in a relationship, don't marry a woman just to try to lead a str8 life. I hope all of this works out for you.
Why would you marry a woman if you're gay?
You wouldn't love her, you won't be sexually attracted to her. The only way you'd ever be able to have sex with your wife would be to close your eyes and fantasize about the man of your dreams.
That's a cruel and mean thing to do, to lie like that, pretending to love and be attracted to some unsuspecting woman, to get her to fall genuinely in love with you so that she agrees to marry you, thinking that you love her in return, when in fact you're just using her for your own cowardly, selfish purposes.
And for what? So that you can hide your homosexuality? Pretend it doesn't exist?
The truth is, you CAN'T hide forever behind the pretense of marriage. Sooner or later, your feelings of sexual attraction for men will not be denied, they will not go away. If anything, repressing them will only make them grow stronger. Closet cases like you wind up having furtive, anonymous sex with strangers at highway rest stops and bus depot restrooms and so on, and getting arrested by undercover cops for public lewdness -- not to mention the risk of becoming infected with HIV and other STD's.
For a gay man to marry a woman is very stupid. I've noticed that there are a few gay men who date women for some weird stupid reason. I think they're idiots. If you don't wanna be an idiot then you should finally come out as gay and start dating men only.
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